Update: The Year 9 Pupil is now back at school and is feeling much better.
I have just managed to get home, I am very tired and honestly, rather disappointed. Right, lemme go to the beginning and explain what happened…
One of the pupils in my school, suffered a “Psychotic Episode”. (psychosis is where one hears, sees or feels things or have thoughts that someone is going to harm them.) This Year 9 Pupil, (who I cannot name for legal reasons) climbed onto the roof of the Gym in D Block. I was first alerted by someone in the office, who spotted someone on the roof of the Gym. Of course I followed emergency procedures and used my radio to put out an urgent message to the office.
In our school, the prodecure for reporting emergencies over the radio, is: To say your name, followed by the name of the person you wish to radio, followed by the word “EMERGENCY MESSAGE.” followed by the type of emergency, location and if emergency assistance is required. So in this case, I said: “Kyle to Reception, emergency message, pupil on the roof of D Block, Fire Brigaide assistance required. I repeat, pupil on the roof of D Block, Fire Brigaide assistance required. over.
Even though I had radoed the instructions for the emergency services attandance, I also used my mobile phone the Fire Brigade. Sam was able to get me up onto the flat roof of C Block, (via a access door in B Block) which is not as high as D Block, so I could speak to him and try to defuse the situation. By now, me on the rooftop drama had got half the school’s attention and unfortunately, we ended up with a crowd on the playground, even though they were told to stay back.
To cut a long story short, through me talking to the pupil in question, through a load hailer and managed to talk him down. I told the Police that I know the lad better than anyone and I knew I could get him to come down with a little time and patience. It took 2 and a half hours to talk him down. With assistance from Durham Fire and Rescue, we got the lad down off the roof and into an ambulance. I went with him to the Hospital, where we sat for a staggering 10 hours! I am sorry, but for someone in crisis, that is far too long to be sat in A&E and the waiting room was not the best or appropriate place to spend half the time, as he was very anxious. Finally, Mental Health Liaison came to see us and he is now in the care of the Hospital.
More money needs to be invested in Mental Health services. I know A&E is busy, I get there are lots of very sick people in the department, but Mental Health crisis should not be pushed down the queue. People who are poorly because of mental health, should not have to wait more than 2 hours to see a Mental Health Professional in A&E. Tomorrow, I am going to write to my MP, because the stigma with mental health needs to stop and better care needs to be out there and not just a “postcode lottery”.
I went above and beyond for a pupil and I didn’t need to do so. I reached out to someone who was in a crisis. In this job, you have to wear many hats. I’m not just the Head of Care, I am a friend the kids can always come to when they are feeling down. The kids know my office door is always open for a private chat and if I am not at work, they know they can turn to any member of staff for help. If needed, I can always be called and I will come into work to help a young person, regardless if it’s 3:30pm on a Sunday afternoon or 3:30 am on a Wednesday morning. If the kids need me, I will be there; even if it means coming to work in my PJs and Dressing Gown.
The kids know they can talk to me and they know if they want one, a hug is always something I am willing to give. From kids who are homesick and miss mum and dad, to kids who feel they are struggling to cope, I am here to listen, support them and explore their feelings. I will not judge them or tell them what to do. I will always explore ways to resolve the problem and they know that they can confide in me. They also know when I have a “legal duty” to speak to break confidentiality, if they or someone else may be in danger. However, I always make sure that I explain why I have to break confidentiality and will always continue to support them through this process. If needed, I can refer them to counselling or I can talk to their Care Coordinator \ Social Worker and get extra support if needed.
Today was incident to reflect on and made me think that as a school, we need to be more eagle eyed to spot when things are getting out of hand and to to intervene sooner. I am not blaming anyone at school, but we need to work harder to prevent something like this happening again.
I was always taught by my mum to “not dwell on the what if’s) and this is the same when you think about today. If we had of got this pupil in to see the School Doctor, before a roof top drama started, the outcome would of been the same. The same outcome regardless, would of been a trip to A&E, as we cannot keep a young person safe from himself or keep other people in school safe. A&E was the appropriate place for him to receive help and when he comes out of hospital, he will be welcomed back to school, with no bad feelings and he will not be told off. It is not the way things are done at our school!
I have been told he will get after care and he will get plenty of help in school as well. All his friends and the staff just want the best for him and I think that he is very lucky to have so many people who care about him.
Right, time for bed, I am back at work tomorrow! G’nite 🙂